school of the small and imperfect
A 13-week relational training in participation, power, and range
Participation organizes power faster than intention can.
Responsibility concentrates.
Tension gets smoothed.
Silence becomes burden.
Repair turns into control.
Roles repeat without being named.
School of the Small and Imperfect is a 13-week structured relational laboratory for people who want to expand their range inside those moments.
This is not theory. It is not group processing. It is not therapy.
It is live practice under constraint.
What This Is
School is a cumulative relational training.
Each week introduces a specific participation condition that makes subtle dynamics visible in real time.
We work with:
• staying with incompletion
• noticing when completion becomes available
• offering without pre-approval
• being met without steering
• participation as shared infrastructure
• continuity without assignment
• recurring participation roles
• refusal without disappearance
• responsibility redistribution
• interruption under load
• repair without capture
• mutual risk
• ethical incompletion
Nothing is analyzed; nothing is fixed.
We stay inside interaction long enough to feel what participation is doing before we move to manage it.
Over time, perception sharpens and range expands.
Who This Is For
School tends to resonate with people who:
• work in or around group spaces
• notice subtle relational shifts quickly
• feel the pull to manage, repair, or carry continuity
• are curious about how participation shapes power
• are willing to practice without resolution
You do not need a specific title. You do need enough stability to remain present when interaction becomes uncertain.
This is not crisis support. It is capacity practice.
What Changes Over 13 Weeks
Participants often notice:
• recognizing responsibility shifts earlier
• tolerating silence and incompletion
• offering without over-evaluating
• refusing without withdrawing
• interrupting without taking over
• repairing without absorbing control
• sensing recurring participation roles
The shifts are subtle but durable.
This is range-building work.
Structure
13 weeks
75 minutes weekly
Closed cohort
Limited to 12 participants
The structure repeats.
The field does not.
Many participants choose to return for additional cycles.
Each pass through the arc reveals different layers of participation.
A Typical Session
Each session includes:
Brief orientation
Perceptual tuning
Short, structured rounds (no storytelling)
A live relational condition with constraint
One-sentence noticing
Deliberate closure without resolution
Repetition allows patterns to surface. Visibility creates choice.
Commitment & Tuition
School runs in 13-week seasonal cohorts.
Tuition: 6300 SEK (€585) total or 2100 SEK (€195) per month for three months
If cost is a genuine barrier, you’re welcome to reach out.
Enrollment closes when the cohort begins.
Entering the Next Cohort
If you’re ready to practice expanding your range inside real-time interaction, you’re welcome to join.
Tuesdays beginning April 21st
3pm-4:15 pm Central European Time
(6am Pacific US, 9am Eastern US, 2pm UK, 7:30pm India)
If you’d like to speak before enrolling, you may schedule a short conversation with me.